Motivation to Talk to Girls
- February 4th, 2012
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Motivation to approach women.
- You know she’s out there, are you gonna go get her?
- No one else is going to help you, you have to help yourself.
- Stop putting it off until tomorrow, the present is all you can ever control.
Motivation to meet girls.
You shouldn’t need motivation to got get girls! Meeting girls should become not something you do between set hours on Saturday night when you are between 2 and 5 beers buzzed. How to meet girls.
Meeting girls should become an integral part of your life, something that is natural. You see an attractive woman, and you go approach her, no questions asked.
- Some guys are thinking duh, dude, chicks are hot.
- Other guys are thinking easier said than done.
- Other guys are thinking, yes I will do that, but then they rarely make an attempt to meet girls in person, outside of s social circle context or maybe the internet.
That’s another thing I’ve seen a lot recently is that guys are fine to meet a girl from the internet (who often turns out nothing like in her pictures) yet t it is completely outside their reality to go up to that pretty girl in the coffee shop where they are sitting messaging girls on the internet.
Meeting girls is a skill
And because meeting, attracting, dating and seducing girls is a skill – it means you can improve over time as long as you are constantly taking action and refining your actions to continually improve. There is no such thing as rejection. The more you get rejected, the more you get laid, the more you learn, and the stronger man you are for it.
Try going out with the specific intent OF getting rejected, and you’ll find its not so bad. Putting yourself in the way of social scrutiny is a great way to increase your social comfort tolerance.
Getting rejected means you are getting laid. Because the more girls you talk to, the more often you will be ‘rejected’. If you aren’t getting rejected some, then you aren’t pushing hard enough. The more girls you meet, the more numbers you get, the more you get laid – it’s as simple as that.
Yes, you can become more proficient, calibrated and skilled in your approach. You will start doing things that you never thought possible before – getting instant make outs with girls you have never talked to, pulling a girl within a ridiculously quick timeframe like 5 freaking minutes, going out and bringing a girl home, then going out and doing it again! This stuff IS possible. Whatever your goals are, if its to have consistent threesomes or just to find a steady girlfriend – ALL of it can be accomplished with more regular approaches.
Need More motivation to get girls?
You will die someday.
This is a fact. The only other thing that is certain in this lifetime is that you will have to pay taxes. You cannot avoid either indefinitely.
If you want to get laid, you need to approach. You need to a approach a girl wherever, and whenever you see one that is attractive and meets your standards. If you don’t, your genes will die out and your lifeline will be eliminated from society.
Plus, meeting girls is fun! If you’re a guy who reads tons of pickup material and doesn’t approach, just cut that shit out. Forget everything you have ever learned, go up to an attractive girl and TALK to her. You know how to talk, right? Don’t even think about what you are going to say. Walk with your legs, and go up and talk to her. Once you have done that, you may not need any help! But if you do, there are some great pick up lines to talk to girls.

This is just what I needed Fade:a little motivational juice.I’m currently chatting up an HB9 who I’d met before.We disconnected after she got serious with her BF.But they broke up,but I seem to lazy to get active.So this serves as a motivator to lay this girl pronto!
I love how the whole concept of making this into a skill that you can improve over time is so revolutionary to some guys. Yep, it’s just like baseball, calculus and salsa dancing. Put in more time, get more results. Be Amazing,
JR