When you first start out, and begin to get serious about finding a girlfriend, it is great to get a date or have sex with ANY girl that will have you. I’ve been there, I know what that’s like. You might not be very picky, and if she likes you, you’ll give it a go.

As you progress, your skills become more advanced, and you gain more experience with girls, you’ll begin to narrow down the type of girls that meet your criteria. You might like tall and skinny girls, you might like gothic chicks, you might only like redheads, you might like girls that are very outgoing, or perhaps ones that are a bit nerdy. Whatever type she is doesn’t matter except that YOU like her, it shouldn’t matter what anyone else thinks.

You’ll begin to only approach and pick up girls that are very attractive to you, and even then – they might need to fit other qualifications. Then, you’ll come up with questions that determine if she meet your qualifications: is she a good cook, is she a caring person, is she open for threesomes, does she have ________ attribute.

This is called qualification and is the crux of game

Even though I’ve dated all types of women, I’ve discovered that it is important to me to have an Asian Girlfriend. From here, I qualify her to see if she has done any travel, if she can cook, and if she speaks a second language she can teach to me. This is what is important to me, I encourage you to find out what’s most important to YOU in a girl.

Sit down and really think about what you want from a girlfriend. Of course, dating tons of girls and putting ‘notches on your belt’ is fun for a while, but eventually you might want something more meaningful, and a woman you can connect with on a different level. Getting a girlfriend is a completely different skill than sleeping with any woman you meet at the bar.

You have to first determine what baseline attractive features does she need to have, and what underlying traits or skills does she need to display beyond that to meet your standards. Unless she meets a certain baseline criteria, you will be settling and unhappy in a relationship.

I teach guys from all over the world how to Get an Asian Girlfriend. I’ve dated numerous women from all over Asia, and I’ve lived in Thailand and China for extended periods. I can tell you straight up, that to get an Asian Girlfriend you need a slightly different approach depending on where she is from.

As you begin to hone in on what type of girl you like, and you get more experience with dating, seducing and making them your girlfriend. This is where the type of girl you like comes full circle. The more experience with a certain type of girl you get, the better you will at gauging her responses, qualifying her, attracting her and dating her.

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Hey Guys

First off – I have to explain the absence I’ve had from the blog – I’ve been traveling around SE Asia for the past few months and shit has been crazyyyyy busy in my life. I’ve learned a ton of stuff about business, living in a foreign country, and hooking up with Asian Women. Finally I made it to Indonesia, and I must say the place is the TITS!
Bali is absolutely nuckin futz, the food, the beach and surf, the cool ass temples, the nightclubs – BALI is BALLIN’.

But anyways – the other night I had a date with a HI-SI girl from Jakarta, and I took a few things from the interaction I wanted to share with you.

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Have you ever dated a girl that was beautiful, rich and powerful? It’s a different ballgame.

You literally can’t, for even one second, be impressed by the stuff that all the men before you are impressed by.

No compliments on dumb shit, keep it tight and make sure that you are in control of the interaction at ALL times. Ideally, you want to get to a place where you can QUALIFY her on the QUALITIES you like about her, beyond superficial beauty.

Possibly the most important thing conversationally is to be the one controlling the conversation. With shy girls, this is relatively easy. With stuck up girls – you can’t let them dictate the frame by asking you questions. The absolute worst is when they are screening you. You never want to have it so that she is qualifying you on things that she looks for in a man. The flip side, what you DO want, is you qualifying HER on what you like in a girl.

Instead of being the SELLER, you want to BUYER

Controlling the interaction is imperative. You can’t let them get off on a tangent about shoes for 10 minutes, it needs to be you directing and leading the conversation.

Also, you don’t need a reason to talk about anything. Just talk about the things you are passionate about, interest you and you think are cool. Never talk about something you don’t like just because you feel that she might be interested in.

If you need to segway between topics, you can just do it, there doesn’t need to be a logical progression, don’t get up in your head, just spew out whatever you are thinking and whatever you feel like saying.

Also, everything should be FUN – there is no need for anything but having a good time. Don’t be so serious that you mess up. if you are trying to “save” the interaction – thats a very bad place to be. instead, you want to be pushing the interaction to the point where shes like “did he just say that?”
Most guys are too conservative in their approach. They won’t stop her mid sentence and kiss her, they won’t say that she shouldn’t play with her phone on the date, they won’t snatch her cigarettes from her and break them.
DON’T PLAY IT SAFE

Take a chance, do something unexpected. These hi-si girls, are deep down, the same as other girls. And girls just wanna have fun!

Motivation to approach women.

• You know she’s out there, are you gonna go get her?
• No one else is going to help you, you have to help yourself.
• Stop putting it off until tomorrow, the present is all you can ever control.

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International clubs, big clubs with an expensive cover in crowded cities, have a slightly different vibe than your local neighborhood pub. The men will act cockier, the women will be hotter, yet subsequently more icey, and it appears everyone has on a ‘front’.

You can easily be thrown off in a place like this, but if you are here to get the girl, you need to have the following:

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